How do we raise confident black children? I’ve been mulling
over that question lately, not because I have children…yet. I think about it in
the context of possibly raising children in the future in a world that sends harmful
messages about blackness. Last week I asked the question of a gentleman who
runs a program for youths living in the inner city. He stressed the need to
instill self-knowledge and identity in early childhood. His curriculum requires
children to make an “I am” board to give them a visual of who they are and the
value that they offer to the world.
I have read about and watched far too many accounts of black
women struggling with confidence, and while I readily admit that
self-confidence is a universal struggle for men and women, certain societal standards
and expectations mean that black women face unique challenges on the road to
self-confidence and self-acceptance. I have had my own struggles withself-confidence and acceptance. Yet at first I shied away from speaking about
them. Discussions about self-confidence seem to skew on the side of blaming and
shaming the person for not having the confidence that they desire.
I am not interested in those discussions. As a solution-oriented person, I seek answers. To get to the answers, of course we do have to look at the issues, uncover the roots and do the work. My inquiry into raising confident black children does not end there; I also want to know about instilling confidence within ourselves and our communities at large so that we can realize our full potential. Confidence plays a huge role in not only how we view ourselves, but in what we achieve and goals we create for ourselves.
So readers, I ask you how do you instill confidence in your
children and/or those around you and how do you develop your own-self
confidence?
Confidence is the key factor from which we can easily develop our personality. It allows us to be unique and strong. Apart from all, it also helps to improve our leadership and positive mindsets. Well, in different stories we have found different concepts, but psychologically, the human being is facing problems due to lack of confidence just because of body language, color, lack of skills, and many others. I never ever support the racism, but still, I have found black color people, especially the women are facing confidence problems in their life. This is really a serious issue, we should develop confidence among them.
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